Welcome to this Soul-Led Academy for Midlife Women.


The Feminine School of Unlearning Academy is a dedicated space were you will be supported with resources to help you to examine and "Unlearn" the beliefs, behaviours and stories you have about yourself that no longer serves you and are keeping you stuck.

Learn tools to empower you to reconnect with and love the woman you truly are, behind all of the roles, responsibilities and expectations of others.

Believe in yourself and feel confident in your abilities. 

Explore your spirituality.

Be a caring supportive mother while claiming your sovereignty as the Queen of your own life!


Welcome Queen, to a place where you belong!



Still Looking For Your Tribe?



Do you ever free lonely?

A hard part of personal growth is that we often outgrow old relationships and our friends and family don’t support us throughout this change.

Accessing resources online will give you heaps of great tools to support you on your unlearning journey however, sometimes you need the support that only being part of a community can provide you.


Introducing...


The Feminine School of Unlearning Community.


An Exclusive Dedicated, Online Community for Soul-Led, Midlife Moms away from the distractions of social media. 


  • Monthly 1-1 mentoring (Available on the Mentoring Plan)
  • Monthly live group mentoring.
  • On demand prerecorded masterclasses and resources. (New content added monthly)
  • Monthly Heart Connection Circles
  • Book Club.
  • A community of like-minded women who “get you”
  • Genuine connections and whole-hearted, real conversations.

Membership starts from $44NZD a month.

Try your first month for FREE!


Tanya Valentin is an Author and Midlife Mentor for Moms. She is the Founder and Mentor of The Feminine School of Unlearning.

She supports Soul-Led, Midlife Moms who are navigating change in their lives so that they can unlearn the beliefs, behaviours and stories that no longer serve them. 

Let her show you how you can reconnect with and love the woman behind the roles, the responsibilities and the weight of the expectations of others. Be a caring and supportive mother and feel free to live the next half of your life in a way feels true to who you authentically are as the Queen of your own life! 

For over a decade Tanya has worked with women to understand, unlearn, and heal the relationship that they have with themselves.

Tanya is a teacher, mentor the author of two books including When She Wakes, She Will Move Mountains. Tanya uses Archetype work, Storytelling, NLP, REBT, Havening and her AWAKEN mentoring framework to support women to claim their crown as the Queen of their own lives!